Awareness and Communication Can Help Head Off Elder Abuse

It’s great that overall our life expectancies have increased, but with longer lives, comes a greater risk of bad choices and financial elder abuse. There are steps you can take to protect those you love.

As we age, so does our brain. Even high functioning retirees, who have no outward signs of dementia, find it more challenging to distinguish between safe and risky investments, according to recent studies. The numbers say it all: only 7% of seniors over 60 have dementia, but nearly a third of those who are 85 years old or older have dementia.

MP900407501If you’re a senior or you have one in your life, it’s critical to know how to prevent abuse. The Kansas City Star provides some helpful ways to prevent abuse in its recent article, “Five ways to avoid elder financial abuse.”

Communication. Speak with your elderly loved ones on a regular basis to check in on their health and their activities. Remind them to maintain safe practices, like shredding receipts and account statements. You should also remind them to be cautious about opening unknown emails and that they should never give out their Social Security number or banking information online or on the phone. Keep open communication, so you can see if they’re showing any signs of confusion or mental decline.

Stay attentive. Know how your loved ones are spending time and their money. If they hire outside help, try to be involved in the hiring process and try to know their health care aides. In addition, take a look at their monthly or quarterly statements to identify any unusual, frequent, or large payments. If your loved one is showing signs of decline, ask if you can pay bills for them, so you’ll know what’s going on.

Create a system of checks and balances. Make sure that your senior has the proper estate planning documents in place that will let trusted family members help them as needed. If you have siblings or other family members, divide responsibilities and then swap responsibilities every few months.

Build professional relationships. Ask your senior to let you come to meetings with them, when visiting advisers, like their estate planning attorney.

Streamline accounts. Conduct an inventory of their financial documents. This includes their life insurance and long-term care policies, bank accounts and investment accounts. Try to make your loved one’s finances more manageable and consolidate their accounts where possible, which will make it easier to spot any unusual withdrawals or transactions.

If, despite all of your efforts, financial fraud or elder abuse takes place in your family, reach out to law enforcement in your area and talk with an elder law attorney. You can protect your loved one (or yourself) after the fact.

Reference:The Kansas City Star (September 8, 2018) “Five ways to avoid elder financial abuse”

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